Poem: Need Any Help?

Hey, are you okay? Do you need a hand or a hug? I’m here, my dear Looks like you’re doing fine But sweetie of mine If that changes

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When You Want to Change a Loved One / PsychCentral article

Yep! It’s a strange and wondrous thing to learn that you can only change yourself directly. Then, and only then, maybe someone else will change. But that’s not

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Unhealthy Song Lyrics: Codependent, Abusive, Jealous, Needy

Codependent, jealous, violent, damaged, needy, suicidal, no boundaries …oh the messages we sing about love! Skim through the zinger lines below or listen to the Youtube playlist: Unhealthy Relationship Lyrics,  (then call

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Tell me your favorite codependent song lyrics! Because “I need you.” “I can’t live without you.” “You make me happy.”

Codependency on a stick! Song lyrics seep in and mess with our thinking, just as easily as parent’s words. I’m working on a chapter and want to mention

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